Moral values are the foundation of a person's character. They influence how a person makes decisions and can have an effect on many aspects of life: from personal relationships to career success. Instead of waiting for the school to teach lessons to children about moral values, you can start inculcating these core values in them at home! In this post, we will cover 10 practical steps that you can use to teach your kids about moral values.
10 Steps to Teach Moral Values to your Kids
1. Teach them about the Golden Rule.
The Golden rule is a phrase that means to treat others as you would like to be treated. This can mean fulfilling their needs before your own, or giving what they need for an interaction/relationship with yourself and other people to work well. Teaching this lesson will help children learn how respect and empathy are vital parts of morality.
2. Teach children how morality can come from Different Beliefs.
There is no single correct definition for what constitutes moral behaviour; instead, there may be many definitions depending on who we ask (parents, teachers, religious leaders). We should teach our children that people will have differences in their opinions as well so it's important to think critically about all perspectives even when we don't agree with them.
3. Teach children that morality should Not Be Judged on a single act or event.
There is no correct way to measure someone's morality, which means it may depend on who you ask and what they see as an offence. Teaching our kids how to think critically in these situations will help them prepare for their future interactions with peers, coworkers, and friends. However, what is considered as an act of offense under the law remains equal for all.
4. Teach our children to understand the importance of Moral Reciprocity.
The Golden Rule is a good start, but it's not enough for teaching kids how much we need each other to create an ethical society. Moral reciprocity teaches empathy and tolerance by understanding that everyone has a different point of view on morality and ethics and that those differences are all valid as long as they don't hurt anyone else or infringe on their rights.
5. Teach our children to understand the importance of Moral Consistency.
Moral consistency is about how people can be ethically successful by following their ethical standards and holding themselves accountable for those actions, even if it's hard or painful. Our kids need to know that they are not alone in feeling conflicted when faced with difficult decisions; instead, we must teach them how important it is to keep going because doing so reflects one's integrity.
6. Teach our children to become more Mindful Thinkers through meditation practice.
Meditation helps us calm ourselves down while making better choices—it doesn't matter what religion you follow, as mindfulness has a lot of value no matter what belief system you subscribe to--and teaches self--awareness.
7. Teach our children how to use their Intuition and put it in the equation when making a tough decision.
Intuition is often overlooked, but teaching kids that they have this built-in tool can be extremely valuable--especially as we become more reliant on technology for information about everything from what to eat to where to go next.
We need to let them know that even if they don't always get an answer, or feel 100% confident with their choice, listening intently will help them stay true to themselves while also honouring others' needs/opinions/feelings too (just like acknowledging other people's feelings doesn't make us wrong).
8. Empower our children by giving back through Volunteerism.
This is the most important step to teach moral values to your kids. Volunteering gives a sense of responsibility, self-worth, and empathy. Volunteerism will teach kids that they matter in the world by helping others.
9. Teach them how to say 'No,' and why it's a good thing.
Learning how to say 'no' is an important skill for kids, and it's a good thing. Saying no teaches them to be assertive and set boundaries that will benefit their whole life. Sometimes we need to set the boundary because other people are not respecting us or our time (just like adults).
10. Teach children what they should do if someone does something Wrong by Example.
Kids learn best when we show them so don't just tell your child what to do in this situation; be present while modelling empathy and kindness with others. Showing your child through action creates long-term memories of values worth living by.
Be sure to also speak about good behaviour as much as possible too! It can help improve self-esteem, impulse control, collaboration skills, and other moral values among the children.
All these practical steps to teach moral values to kids can be taught by telling stories from one's personal life where someone has acted kindly towards another person, exemplifying kindness; reading books such as 'Mama Llama Red Pajamas;' or simply asking 'What do want me to teach you today?' when it comes time for bedtime conversation each night.
We hope these moral values teaching tips are helpful to you and your family. They may not always be easy, but they will surely make a difference in the life of our children!