Introduction

As a parent, we always want what is best for our children and sometimes we have different ways of going about it; this is our Parenting Style. Have you ever wondered what your parenting style is? And more importantly, what effect does it have on your children?

Well, to better understand, In this blog, we will talk about the four main types of Parenting Styles and the effects they can have on your little ones.

All you need to know about parenting style 

Let's first start with the understanding of what is parenting style? Parenting style is the strategy we use for raising our little ones. 

There are four main types of parenting styles:

1) Permissive parenting 

2)Neglectful parenting 

3)Authoritative parenting 

Each kind of parenting style can have different effects on children. From how they behave and how they do in school to how they interact with others and develop their social skills, parenting types can have a significant impact.

Permissive parenting 

Do any of these statements apply to your parenting style?

•  I let my kids do whatever they want.
• I don't believe in punishment- kids will just learn from their mistakes.
•  I'm more of a friend than a parent to my children.

If you answered yes to any of the above, you might have a permissive parenting style. Permissive parenting is a type of parenting style characterized by low expectations and little supervision. This parenting style might result in spoiled, aggressive children who have difficulty in following rules.

While permissive parenting is often thought of as overly lenient, it's important to remember that this parenting style is not the same as neglectful parenting. Permissive parents are still involved in their children's lives and provide love and support. They just tend to be less strict when setting rules.

Neglectful parenting 

Can you relate to any of the following statements?

• There's no need to talk to your kids about your day—they're not interested.

• It's fine if the house is messy; nobody's perfect.

• If your kids want something, they can get a job and buy it themselves.

If you answered yes to any of the above, you might be a neglectful parent. Neglectful parenting is characterized by little to no emotional connection between parent and child, minimal parental supervision, and little involvement in the child's life.

Neglectful parenting often results in children who are left to fend for themselves emotionally and physically. These children may suffer behavioral problems, developmental delays, and social issues.

If you think you may be a neglectful parent, it's important to seek help. Many resources are available to help you change your parenting style and create a more positive relationship with your child.

Authoritative parenting 

Do you find any of the below-mentioned statements relatable?

•  You set clear rules and expectations for your child.
•  You enforce rules consistently and with appropriate consequences.
• You explain the reasoning behind rules to your child.
•  You encourage open communication between you and your child.

Yes? Then, chances are high that you might be parenting authoritatively. Authoritative parenting is often considered the "gold standard" of parenting styles. This style is associated with happy, successful, and well-adjusted children.

As per research, the authoritative parenting style is the most effective. It balances between being too strict and too lenient. Authoritative parents are both demanding and responsive. They have high expectations of their children but are also loving and supportive.

Authoritative parenting has been linked with kids who have higher self-esteem, are more independent, and do better in school.

A word from SparkleBox School

Parenting styles can affect kids in both positive and negative ways. Finding a parenting style that works for you and your family is important. Try to avoid extremes, such as overly permissive or overly strict parenting, as these styles can lead to problems down the road. Ensure that your parenting style is supportive and loving while setting appropriate limits and expectations for your children.

Remember that every family is different, and there is no one "right" way to parent. The most important thing is to create a loving and supportive home environment for your kids.

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